Ask a Sex Specialist: How Do You Set Boundaries for Rough Intercourse With My Partner?

Ask a Sex Specialist: How Do You Set Boundaries for Rough Intercourse With My Partner?

Intercourse should always be enjoyable, nonetheless it can be complicated. Welcome to Sexual Resolution, a biweekly line by sex specialist Vanessa Marin responding to your many private concerns to assist you attain an excellent, joyful sex-life. Here, she answers a relevant concern about rough intercourse.

DEAR VANESSA: i love rough intercourse. I have attempted to reveal to my partner that i love it rough, but he assumes this means actually intense such things as choking or slapping me personally when you look at the face. I do not like those certain tasks, but he views it as black colored and white. Just how can he is got by me to note that’s not the things I want? — Harsh, Not That Rough, 26

DEAR RBNTR: Choking and slapping have become more present in porn today, which means this is a actually common problem that I’m hearing about from nearly all my consumers.

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